This is embarrassing.....but.....I've been driving a variety of other cars recently. When I went back to driving my Mustang, I did not feel it was shifting into third....kept waiting and didn't feel it and seemed like the rpm's(and noise)were high. I drove it again today, starting with the gear selector in the "dot" position so it would start out in 2nd gear so any shift felt would be up to 3rd. I realized it was shifting into 3rd very early, as slow as 30 mph, and smoothly that I didn't feel it. I've driven and owned many of these, so I really can't explain it, but I was not feeling the shift into 3rd even though it was. Sorry for the posting of a problem did didn't actually exist....and thanks for the replies.
Bottom line...…."operator error." I did talk to a friend with the same car and transmission and he admitted he sometimes wasn't sure his C4 was upshifting into 3rd, so I don't feel so foolish.