3M weather strip dressing spray is super slippery.
Got a 5/16" fuel hose onto a 3/8" sending unit nipple no problem using it.
Hose split a few years later, but the fault was typical repro junk, a 3/8 line for a 66 sending unit what was the manufacturer thinking?
That's a segue into your grommet issue, if it's made grossly oversize so as not to fit even with the 3M lube, you'll have to cut it off and replace with a parts store split grommet.
The question was rhetorical, we all know exactly what they were thinking, make a generic part that sort of fits everything, but exactly fits nothing.