Keep in mind that the method you strip the parts to be phosphated has a major effect on the final appearance. Hard abrasives will give the parts a "frosty" look, which is not what you want. I recommend medium grit glass bead, sprayed in a cabinet around 40-50psi.
Make sure you clean/degrease the parts before they go in the solution.
I recommend soaking in regular 30 weight motor oil for 24 hours. Rinse all the parts in water after they come out of the solution and then blow dry before dropping in oil.